In ‘Have PODD, will chat. Part 1’, I discussed how before we could get started with modelling on the PODD or have any expectations of Harry even using it we first had to get into the habit of taking his voice everywhere. Not quite as simple as it sounds, but once the habit was formed, we were hooked. Don’t get me wrong, there is still the odd occasion when we find ourselves somewhere without Harry’s voice (even just writing that makes me feel bad) but Harry has developed a brilliant strategy to ensure that those mistakes are minimal.
When Harry’s PODD communication book first arrived, we were given a few brightly-coloured rubber wrist bands printed with the following words ‘I have something to say! Please get my communication system.’ There were little ones for Harry and big ones for me and the aim was for both Harry and I to wear the bands and for him to learn to wave his arm that had the band on to show that he had something to say and wanted his PODD book. Very clever. The importance of using these wrist bands was not lost on me. And we did. For a while…
The trouble was, for Harry, a brightly coloured wrist band on his arm looked to him like a big, delicious chewy. I can’t even tell you how many we went through! Unfortunately the wrist bands weren’t the solution for us at that time.
And after that, well the truth is that we just forgot about ensuing that Harry had a specific and easily recognisable way to ask for his book or device. I will comfort myself for this oversight by saying that, on the whole, Harry’s device is usually within his reach. But what about the situations when I’m not around to ensure that his book or device is just an arm’s length away? What happens then when he has something to say and no one notices him gesturing for his book or device?
Enter into the picture Harry’s little sister, Tallulah. As soon as she was over the first few months of being a quiet, sleeping newborn she was one seriously chatty little girl. Whenever she was on an especially chatty roll and Harry would point to her or perhaps give his sign for ‘noisy’, we would laugh and say ‘yes, she’s so chatty’ whilst giving a sign for chat.
Now, I have no idea if it was any kind of legitimate sign that we were using and we certainly weren’t even thinking that we were modelling that sign with any intent. It was simply a part of the sentence. It’s amazing how regularly we all punctuate our words with signs without even realising it. The sign we were making was made by holding our top 4 fingers together and opening and closing them against your thumb, like you might sign ‘quack’.
Slowly I noticed Harry making this sign at times when Tallulah wasn’t around. Hmm, that’s interesting…
And then with closer attention, I noticed that he would follow this sign by pointing to his device.
*ding* Light bulb moment!
Harry had taken our sign for describing his chatty sister and was using it to tell us that he wanted to chat! What a resourceful little sausage!
The minute we made the connection that Harry’s new ‘chat’ sign meant that he wanted his talker, our world changed. And undoubtedly so did his! We made sure that everyone knew what the sign meant and with that, Harry now had a means to demand access his talker anywhere, any time.
As soon as Harry is strapped up in his car seat… H☝️: ‘chat’
At the table, if I haven’t yet popped his talker in front of him… H☝️: ‘chat’
At childcare whilst playing with his buddies… H☝️: ‘chat’
The second he wakes up in the morning… H☝️: ‘chat’
Anywhere, any time… H☝️: ‘chat’
This simple sign represents incredible power and autonomy for Harry.
Be it a sign or a wrist band, a sound or a switch, by ensuring that Harry has a means to clearly demand access to his communication device we ensure that the ownership of Harry’s voice remains exactly where it should be. With Harry.